Parenting Support

When You Love Them More Than Anything and Still Feel Like You Are Getting It Wrong

At Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing, our psychologists in Hobart provide evidence-based parenting support for families navigating a wide range of challenges. We also offer telehealth psychology across Australia. Please contact us for more information.

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You did not expect it to be easy. But you did not expect it to feel like this. The tantrums that leave you shaking. The teenager who looks at you like a stranger. The toddler who will not sleep, or eat, or stop. The school refusal that started three weeks ago and is not improving. Your own exhaustion, so deep it has moved past tired and into something else.

And underneath all of it, the voice that says: a better parent would know what to do.

Parenting is one of the most meaningful and one of the most demanding experiences a person can have. Research published in the Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry found that parenting stress is a significant predictor of mental health difficulties in both parents and children, and that parenting support interventions improve outcomes for the whole family [1].

Understanding Parenting Challenges

Parenting challenges come in many forms. Some are about the child: managing difficult behaviour, supporting a child with anxiety or neurodevelopmental differences, or navigating a young person's mental health. Some are about the parent: managing your own mental health while parenting, recovering from difficult childhood experiences that are triggered by parenting, or finding yourself reacting in ways you do not want to.

Many parenting challenges are about the relationship between parent and child: patterns of interaction that have become unhelpful, communication that is not working, or a sense of disconnection that both parent and child are feeling but neither knows how to bridge.

Parenting challenges we commonly support include:

  • Managing difficult or aggressive behaviour in young children
  • Navigating the demands of parenting a neurodivergent child including autism, ADHD, or sensory processing differences
  • Parenting through separation, divorce, or blended family formation
  • Co-parenting difficulties and communication with an ex-partner
  • Parenting a child who has experienced trauma
  • Feeling persistently overwhelmed, depleted, or disconnected as a parent

Research from the Australian Institute of Family Studies confirms that access to parenting support is associated with significant improvements in child behaviour, parent wellbeing, and family relationships across a wide range of family types and circumstances [2]. This condition connects closely with behavioural issues and separation anxiety.

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How Parenting Affects Mental Health

Parents are frequently the last people to seek support for themselves. The needs of children and the demands of daily life absorb available energy, and there is often little left for attending to your own wellbeing. Yet research consistently shows that a parent's mental health is one of the strongest influences on a child's mental health.

Parents who are struggling with depression, anxiety, unresolved trauma, or significant stress are more likely to find parenting harder, to experience conflict in the parenting relationship, and to have children who are also struggling. Seeking support for yourself as a parent is not an indulgence. It is one of the most effective things you can do for your child.

At Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing, our team of psychologists in Hobart work with parents individually to address depression, anxiety, and to build parenting skills and strengthen the parent-child relationship. Our telehealth psychology service is available for parents anywhere in Australia.

How Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing Helps With Parenting Challenges

Our parenting support is practical, evidence-based, and non-judgemental. We understand that parents come to us already doing their best.

  • Evidence-based parenting strategies: we draw on approaches including Positive Parenting Program (Triple P), and attachment-based parenting models, supporting parents to understand their child's behaviour and respond more effectively [3].
  • Individual therapy for parents: where a parent's own mental health, history, or emotional regulation is contributing to parenting difficulties, we address this through individual therapy using CBT, Schema Therapy, ACT, or other evidence-based approaches.
  • Emotion regulation skills: we help parents build skills for managing their own emotional reactivity in challenging parenting moments, reducing the likelihood of cycles that leave everyone feeling worse.
  • Parent-child relationship work: we support parents to strengthen their connection with their child, rebuild a relationship that has become strained, and understand their child's experience more fully.
  • NDIS parenting support: we provide parenting capacity building support for NDIS families, including parents of children with disability, autism, or complex needs.

What to Expect

Your first session is a space to talk about what is happening in your family and what feels most challenging right now. We do not judge your parenting. We listen, understand the context, and work with you to identify what will make the most practical difference.

Sessions with our psychologists are available face-to-face at our Battery Point rooms in Hobart, Tasmania, and via telehealth for clients anywhere in Australia via individual therapy. We accept Medicare Mental Health Treatment Plans, NDIS (self-managed and plan-managed), DVA, Open Arms, National Redress Scheme, and private health insurance. Self-referral is also welcome.

Reach Out

Seeking support as a parent is a sign of how much you care. Our team at Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing is here to help. To book an appointment or learn more, please contact our team.
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References

  1. Sanders, M.R., Kirby, J.N., Tellegen, C.L., & Day, J.J. (2014). The Triple P-Positive Parenting Program: A systematic review and meta-analysis of a multi-level system of parenting support. Clinical Psychology Review, 34(4), 337–357. (101 studies, 16,099 families; replaces the 2005 opinion piece previously cited with a stronger, effect-size-based meta-analysis.)
  1. Australian Institute of Family Studies (2022). Parenting Interventions: Evidence Review. aifs.gov.au
  1. Sanders, M.R. (2012). Development, evaluation, and multinational dissemination of the Triple P-Positive Parenting Program. Annual Review of Clinical Psychology, 8, 345–379. (Kept alongside the 2014 meta-analysis as the definitive account of the programme's development.)

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