Social Anxiety

At Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing, we support children, young people, and adults to understand social anxiety and develop skills that support confidence, connection, and meaningful participation in everyday life.

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Social anxiety involves a strong fear of being judged, embarrassed, or negatively evaluated by others. It can make social situations feel overwhelming and can lead people to avoid interactions, speak less, or feel highly self-conscious around others. Over time, social anxiety can limit relationships, opportunities, and confidence.

Understanding Social Anxiety

Social anxiety is more than shyness. It involves intense worry about how one is perceived and a fear of making mistakes in social situations. These worries often feel automatic and difficult to control.

Social anxiety may present as:

• fear of being judged, criticised, or embarrassed
• intense self-consciousness in social or performance situations
• avoidance of social interactions, groups, or speaking situations
• physical symptoms such as blushing, sweating, shaking, or a racing heart
• difficulty making eye contact or speaking up
• replaying social interactions afterwards and focusing on perceived mistakes
• feeling “on edge” before, during, and after social situations

Social anxiety looks different for each person. At Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing, we focus on understanding how anxiety operates for you and what keeps it going.

Social Anxiety in Adults

Adults with social anxiety may feel confident in some areas of life but experience significant distress in social, professional, or performance-based situations. Many continue to participate despite high internal anxiety.

Adults may notice:

• avoidance of meetings, presentations, or social events
• excessive preparation or overthinking before social interactions
• difficulty asserting needs or expressing opinions
• fear of being seen as awkward, incompetent, or unlikeable
• physical tension and exhaustion linked to social demands
• reduced enjoyment of relationships or opportunities

At Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing, we help adults build confidence, reduce self-focused attention, and develop more flexible responses in social situations.

Social Anxiety in Children and Young People

Children and adolescents with social anxiety may appear quiet, withdrawn, or reluctant to engage. Their anxiety is often misinterpreted as disinterest or behaviour.

Families and educators may notice:

• reluctance to speak in class or group settings
• avoidance of social activities or peer interactions
• strong fear of making mistakes or being laughed at
• difficulty initiating or maintaining friendships
• physical symptoms before school or social events
• emotional distress following social situations

At Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing, we support young people to understand social anxiety, develop social confidence, and build coping skills in a supportive and developmentally appropriate way.

How Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing Supports Social Anxiety

Our approach is practical, evidence-informed, and collaborative. Support may include:

Understanding anxiety patterns
Helping individuals recognise how social anxiety operates and what maintains it.

Reducing self-focused attention
Supporting individuals to shift attention outward and engage more fully in social situations.

Challenging unhelpful beliefs
Helping to identify and shift beliefs about judgment, performance, and social expectations.

Building confidence through gradual exposure
Supporting individuals to face social situations in a paced and supportive way.

Strengthening emotional regulation skills
Teaching strategies to manage physical anxiety symptoms and emotional distress.

Supporting families and caregivers
Providing guidance to help adults support children’s social confidence.

What to Expect

Your first session focuses on understanding your concerns, social experiences, and goals. Together we develop a plan that feels manageable and relevant to daily life. Therapy may draw on cognitive behavioural strategies, exposure-based work, emotional regulation skills, and acceptance-based approaches.

Therapy at Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing progresses at a pace that supports safety, confidence, and sustainable change.

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Social anxiety can make everyday interactions feel overwhelming, but support can help reduce fear and build confidence. With the right strategies, social situations can become more manageable and even enjoyable.
Our team at Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing is here to support you or your child with care, clarity, and practical tools.
To book an appointment or learn more, please contact our team.
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