Understanding Trauma

When Your Body Remembers What Your Mind Tries to Forget

At Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing, our trauma psychologists in Hobart help children, young people, and adults understand the impact of trauma and build the skills needed to move toward safety and recovery. We also offer telehealth psychology across Australia. Please contact us for more information.

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Something happened. Maybe recently. Maybe a long time ago. Maybe it was one moment that changed everything, or maybe it was years of something that slowly wore you down.

You have tried to move on. You have told yourself it is in the past. But your body has not got the message. You still flinch. You still avoid. You still feel a knot in your stomach when something reminds you, even when you cannot quite explain what it is reminding you of.

Trauma is not about what happened to you. It is about how your nervous system responded to what happened, and how those responses continue to shape your daily life.

Phoenix Australia, the national centre for posttraumatic mentalhealth, describes trauma as an experience that overwhelms a person’s capacity to cope, leaving lasting effects on emotional, psychological, and physical wellbeing [1].

Understanding Trauma

Trauma is not defined by the event alone, but by how the nervous system reacts and adapts. What overwhelms one person may not overwhelm another, and that is not a measure of strength or weakness. It is biology.

Common trauma responses include:

  • Being on high alert constantly, even when there is no immediate threat
  • Intrusive memories, images, or thoughts thatarrive without warning
  • Nightmares or disrupted sleep
  • Avoiding reminders of what happened, including people, places, or conversations
  • Emotional numbness or feeling disconnected from yourself and others
  • Irritability, anger, or strong emotional reactions that feel out of proportion
  • Difficulty concentrating or feeling mentally foggy
  • Physical symptoms like tension, headaches, orstomach discomfort

 

The Australian Institute of Health and Welfare (AIHW) reports that trauma and adverse experiences are significant risk factors for a range of mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, and PTSD [2].

Trauma in Adults

Trauma in adulthood can stem from recent events, past experiences, or long-term stress. Many adults describe feeling stuck in emotional patterns, unsure why they react strongly at times, or unable to relax even in safe situations.

You might notice:

  • Difficulty trusting others or feeling unsafe in relationships
  • Emotional overwhelm followed by emotional shutdown
  • Sudden shifts in mood or irritability that surprise you
  • Avoidance of places, people, or tasks that trigger distress
  • Feeling detached from your own emotions or from the people around you
  • Physical tension, fatigue, or pain connected to stress

 

At Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing, we help adults understand their nervous system, create emotional safety, and learn strategies that support stability, healing, and resilience. We use a range of individual psychology techniques including EMDR, Schema Therapy, and Trauma-Focused CBT

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Trauma in Children and Young People

Children and adolescents often show trauma through behaviour, emotions, or physical responses rather than words. They may not be able to describe what has happened or how it affects them.

Families may notice:

  • Irritability, big emotional swings, or angry outbursts
  • Withdrawal from others or increased clinginess
  • Difficulties with sleep or nightmares
  • Avoidance of certain people, places, or activities
  • Heightened startle responses or ongoing worry
  • Challenges with concentration or memory at school
  • Regression in skills or sudden changes in behaviour

 

At Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing, we provide developmentally sensitive support that helps young people understand their feelings, build emotional safety, and develop tools to navigate daily life.

How Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing Helps With Trauma

We use trauma-informed, evidence-based approaches that prioritise safety, understanding, and gradual change.

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing)

EMDR helps the brain process distressing memories in a safe and structured way. The World Health Organisation recommends EMDR as an effective treatment for trauma-related conditions [3].

Schema Therapy

Schema Therapy helps you identify and change deep-rooted emotional patterns that developed early in life. By understanding unmet childhood needs, you can heal past wounds and build healthier relationships.

Trauma-Focused CBT (CBT-T)

CBT-T helps individuals understand how trauma affects their thoughts, emotions, and behaviours. It supports people to gently process trauma memories and rebuild a sense of safety and control.

Creating safety and stability

We start by building grounding strategies, regulation skills, and stability before working on deeper trauma material.

Building resilience and connection

Our psychologists support you to rebuild confidence, reconnect with meaningful relationships, and regain a sense of safety in daily life.

What to Expect

Your first session is about understanding. We listen to what is happening for you, how things show up in your day, and what you hope to change. Together we create a plan that feels clear, supportive, and manageable.

Therapy at Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing moves at a pace that feels safe while still supporting steady progress. You remain in control of the process.

Sessions with our psychologists are available face-to-face at our Battery Point rooms in Hobart, Tasmania, and via telehealth for clients anywhere in Australia. Our psychologists are experienced in working with Medicare Mental Health Treatment Plans, DVA, NDIS (self-managed and plan-managed), WorkCover, and private health insurance.

Reach Out

Trauma can make life feel unpredictable or overwhelming, but healing is possible. Our team at Chrysalis Psychology & Wellbeing is here to support you or your child with compassion, clarity, and evidence-informed care.
To book an appointment or learn more, please contact our team.
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References

[1] Phoenix Australia (2021). Australian Guidelines for the Prevention and Treatment of Acute Stress Disorder, PTSD and Complex PTSD.https://www.phoenixaustralia.org/australian-guidelines-for-ptsd/

[2] Australian Institute of Health and Welfare (2024). Mental health: Prevalence and impact. https://www.aihw.gov.au/mental-health

[3] World Health Organisation (2013). Guidelines for the Management of Conditions Specifically Related to Stress. https://www.who.int/publications/i/item/9789241505406